A soft voice will reach more ears than the loudest shout.
A shake of a hand will accomplish more than a punch in a face.
To listen with respect offers a chance to speak and be heard… while chants and closed minds never will.
Gaps can not close by screams… only the true “love of country” will.
I think the whole problem over the past 25 or so years is the lack of (or in) the general population knowing how to communicate and the lack of common sense and moderation.